Don’t Fall Into The Trap!
A lot of girls that have just been in a breakup may feel that they need to go begging on their hands and knees to get the relationship back. I’ve heard of it time and time again and I always hate to see it. Some even feel that they have to lose every bit of pride that they have, just to get their ex partner back. Well as it stands, the breakup may have gone a long way towards hurting your pride as it is, so there is really no need to hurt your self image any more. There is no reason that you shouldn’t be able to win your ex boyfriend back and retain all of your dignity while doing so.
If you have just been ‘dumped’, that is often enough to hurt the way you look at yourself. You may feel that you need to go begging to him but there are things that you can do that won’t make that necessary. That is not what you need to do to win your ex boyfriend back.
Remember What Sparked The Relationship
If he was the one that broke up with you, you could think about what it was that drew him to you in the first place. What was the attitude and personality you had then? How was your spirit? What did you do that made him laugh? If you want to rekindle that love that was there earlier in the relationship, try putting all of those elements back into your personality that caused the fire in the first place. Let him see that you are still the same, amazing person that he fell in love with before. If he doesn’t notice you, someone else just might and that might not be a bad thing. There are many tips in the book I recommend that show you how attention from another person can offer a great deal of help to getting your relationship with your ex back on track.
Whatever you do, remember that begging is not a good way to win ex boyfriend back.
Keep Your Confidence!
Also, don’t ask for you two to be reunited. You should let him know that you don’t expect a second chance and that you are more confident than that – remember, people want what they can’t have more, so acting ‘hard to get’ (in some ways!) can help your chances when it is done correctly. If he is interested in restarting the relationship with you or if he is curious about what you are doing then let him make the first move. It takes character and strength to admit a mistake, and this could help him to prove how strong he is as a person, by asking to be your boyfriend again.
Now, I’m not saying this is all going to be easy, in fact – it could be a challenge getting your ex boyfriend back. If he is the one that you feel is perfect for you, and you want a long relationship, then chances are good that you can make it happen. The trick here is to get him involved and make him think that he is pursuing you. Make him want you again! All of this can be done without resorting to any kind of begging or pleading – remind your ex what a strong and capable person you are, and start taking the first steps to reuniting your relationship with him.