Win Ex Boyfriend Back With Dignity!

Don’t Fall Into The Trap!

A lot of girls that have just been in a breakup may feel that they need to go begging on their hands and knees to get the relationship back. I’ve heard of it time and time again and I always hate to see it. Some even feel that they have to lose every bit of pride that they have, just to get their ex partner back. Well as it stands, the breakup may have gone a long way towards hurting your pride as it is, so there is really no need to hurt your self image any more. There is no reason that you shouldn’t be able to win your ex boyfriend back and retain all of your dignity while doing so.

If you have just been ‘dumped’, that is often enough to hurt the way you look at yourself. You may feel that you need to go begging to him but there are things that you can do that won’t make that necessary. That is not what you need to do to win your ex boyfriend back.

Remember What Sparked The Relationship

If he was the one that broke up with you, you could think about what it was that drew him to you in the first place. What was the attitude and personality you had then? How was your spirit? What did you do that made him laugh? If you want to rekindle that love that was there earlier in the relationship, try putting all of those elements back into your personality that caused the fire in the first place. Let him see that you are still the same, amazing person that he fell in love with before. If he doesn’t notice you, someone else just might and that might not be a bad thing. There are many tips in the book I recommend that show you how attention from another person can offer a great deal of help to getting your relationship with your ex back on track.

Whatever you do, remember that begging is not a good way to win ex boyfriend back.

Keep Your Confidence!

Also, don’t ask for you two to be reunited. You should let him know that you don’t expect a second chance and that you are more confident than that – remember, people want what they can’t have more, so acting ‘hard to get’ (in some ways!) can help your chances when it is done correctly. If he is interested in restarting the relationship with you or if he is curious about what you are doing then let him make the first move. It takes character and strength to admit a mistake, and this could help him to prove how strong he is as a person, by asking to be your boyfriend again.

Now, I’m not saying this is all going to be easy, in fact – it could be a challenge getting your ex boyfriend back. If he is the one that you feel is perfect for you, and you want a long relationship, then chances are good that you can make it happen. The trick here is to get him involved and make him think that he is pursuing you. Make him want you again! All of this can be done without resorting to any kind of begging or pleading – remind your ex what a strong and capable person you are, and start taking the first steps to reuniting your relationship with him.

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Give Your Ex Time To Miss You!

In our free report (available to download here), we go into detail about what your first step should be after a break up to maximise your chances of getting your ex back. So now, lets talk about why this first step is so effective, and how it plays on your ex’s mind. I’ll also explain why it’s a key role in the system of getting your ex partner back into your arms for good.

How Not To Do Things…

Right – it’s just after the break-up, emotions are running high and you are feeling quite confused. The normal reaction after someone is dumped by their partner is for that person to send their ex text after text, email after email, phone them again and again and so on, right?… so that’s the expected behaviour, and it is exactly that kind of behaviour that makes people seem predictable and desperate, which is very bad in this situation.

Not only that, but by doing this they are making their ex feel more important because they are being chased. It also makes the person that is doing the chasing look weak because they are constantly chasing! By spending all their time trying to get in touch with their ex they’re doing the equivalent of begging! Trying to get back into their ex’s lives by any means neccessary.

But, as you’ll know by now, you are stronger than that, and you won’t show that kind of behaviour ;)

A Bit Of Mischief

So what do you think your ex is going to be thinking about you if DON’T try to contact them all the time? If you DON’T show the kind of begging behaviour we just talked about?

That’s right – they’re going to wonder why!

They’re going to be racking their brain thinking “Hang on a sec… I thought they’d be thinking about me all the time, I thought they’d be sending me text after text confessing their love for me?!”

The Right Way To Do Things

By NOT texting your ex, phoning them in the night telling them about the mistake they made letting you go, you are showing your self worth! You are showing your ex partner that you are a strong, cabable individual, someone that they should WANT be with… do you see where I’m going with this?

And what do you think your ex partner will be thinking about in this time? They are going to start missing you… perfect for us don’t you think?

This is exactly what you want!

Who knows, maybe your ex will even concede and send YOU the first text telling you that they miss you, sound good? If that happens, the best way to deal with this situation is explained in the system that we talk about in our free report, as well as many other tips on how to get your ex back for good.

If you don’t know the first step in the system, then you’re missing out ;) but don’t worry, you can get the info in our FREE report by clicking here.

Does this all make sense to you? Do you get how this will could your ex INSANELY jealous?

Leave a comment below telling me what you think :)

Katie Rainer

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Giving You Some Time To Think

Ok in this post I’m going to go into more detail about a point I have already touched upon: Stop asking yourself ‘should I text my ex‘ – by not texting your ex just after a breakup, you are improving your chances of making up with them in the long run, and relighting the spark between you.

Why Does This Work?

So what are the reasons behind this? What makes this system work? First of all – and this may sound like something you don’t need right now – but… it gives both of you some time to think.

That’s right, some time apart to really think about the relationship. I know what it feels like straight after a break up, I know this will seem hard but you really owe it to yourself and your ex partner to really think about your relationship.

This will help you decide if this relationship is really what you want! Everyone knows that break-ups hurt – it’s a feeling of rejection that always hits home harder than others because of the time and commitment you put into relationships. These feelings can always seem amplified, and you take the opinion of that ONE person to be much more than it really is. Just remember that (even though you may not believe it right now) there are always people around you who really care about you.

Some Time To Think…

So when you are thinking of the relationship, what should you be thinking about? Well for starters try to be as impartial as possible – what were the good points? what were the bad points? What would you have liked to have done differently as the relationship went on. I have outlined some other key points you may like to think about in my free report on making up with your ex partner, but these two should be enough to start with.

And remember that even things like the time of day can have an impact on your mood! In the middle of the day when you are surrounded by your friends and on your way to do something fun, texting your ex may be the last thing on your mind – which is where it should be! But later on, at night if you are feeling lonely, you will have to reach in for that strength to not pick up the phone and send a longing, desperate text to your ex partner.

Remember, this is just one aspect of the system for getting your ex partner back, and the first step in doing so. If you can’t wait for more information on how to get your ex partner back – take a look at this complete guide you can use to get your ex partner back for good.

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Why The First Step Is So Important

A lot of questions I have been receiving recently have been about why the first step you should take after a break up is to break contact with your ex partner. “Should I text my ex?” shouldn’t even be a question that enters your mind – I know this may seem cruel just now, but it’s the best way to approach this situation.

Since this issue was causing so much confusion and so many questions, I decided to let you in on some of the secrets of the human psyche, and why this is such an effective first step to take.

Now I know this may seem a little counter intuitive – the very FIRST thing you might want to be doing in the days immediately after a break up is to text your ex! With your heart and your brain both screaming at you to pick up the phone, it can be a hard message to ignore.

You might want to send your ex partner screens of text confessing your love for them, telling them that the thought of life without them seems hopeless. You might be thinking of trying to convince them that you two of you really are meant to be together and that if they can’t see that then they should seek psychiatric help to deal with their denial. However… I think if you consider these options carefully, you’ll also admit that texting your ex is not the right thing to do just now.

Lets try putting yourself in their shoes – if they have just broken up with you, they might not be feeling too great either. They might have been wondering whether this was the right decision to make for some time, and you will both be needing some time to think. The last thing that they would want is to receive constant texts from you reminding them of your love and telling them that they are wrong to let your relationship go.

So for that reason I’m going to outline the BEST things to keep in mind when you are trying to refrain from that ‘text message terrorism’, and why it is best for you in the long run – even though it may not feel like it right now.

In the next blog post I will outline the most important things you need to remember to stay in the correct frame of mind, and to strengthen yourself so you won’t damage your chances of reconciliation by sending a weepy or mushy text to them.

However if you simply cannot wait until then and are desperate to find out the truth about this step, as well as get your hands on a proven system to get your ex back and answer the question “Should I text my ex?” along with many others, then more information is available at but only when you truly feel you are ready to start getting your ex partner back.

Katie Rainer

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What Went Wrong?

If you feel that everything you are doing to get back together with your ex partner isn’t working, then you are not alone. Almost everyone thinks the same type of thing following a break up. They continually ask themselves things questions such as “Should I text my ex?” “Should I phone her?” or worse “What if I just went round to his house?”

And what makes it more difficult, it’s as if these thoughts almost have the power to take over lives. Sometimes people can’t think of anything else but how to get their ex back. Especially when everywhere they go they are reminded of something that their ex partner used to do, or say. Perhaps they even had the same group of friends which can be even more upsetting, so they try harder to get their ex back. And when the ex doesn’t respond, they find themselves further increasing their attempts to get reunited.

Does any of this sound familiar to you? Are you overcome with emotions and feelings of missing your ex? Are you constantly trying to decide just the ‘correct words’ to use when you send that text message or pick up the phone, before backing out at the last minute?

If This Is Sounding All Too True… Don’t Worry About It

If you are feeling this way, no one could blame you for being in a bad place right now. You may just been in a pretty bad break up and your self confidence may have taken a knock, leaving you feeling pretty low. In this situation it’s only natural that the first thing you want to do is to text your ex to convince them what a huge mistake they made letting you go. After all, it’s human nature, right?

How Do I Get My Ex Back Then?

Well, although you won’t be able to believe it just now, this is just one of those times when you need to stop listening to your heart and use a better method to get your ex partner’s attention… a method that’s been proved to work for the many thousands of couples who got back together after their break-ups.

So although a break up may have left you with a constant internal battle between your head and your heart – your head telling you to be rational and to wait for the pain to pass, versus your heart suggesting you pick up that phone or send them a text, you have to obey some simple rules.

Should I text my ex? – Rule 1:

Don’t contact your ex at all just now.

Should I text my ex? – Rule 2:

Don’t forget rule 1 :)

In this time you should take a few days to figure out what YOU want – what makes you happy? What do you enjoy doing? Just put the relationship thoughts on hold for a while (just keep in mind that if you use the system that is outlined here properly, your ex will be chasing YOU asking you to forgive THEM ;) and definitely eliminate the texting, at least until you learn how to get them to respond using the proper system.

In the next post, we will discuss the tried and tested method that others have used to get their ex back after a break up (and how you can use them too). However if you can’t wait that long, click here for more info now.

Katie Rainer

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The First Steps To Getting Your Ex Back

If you’ve arrived at this page following a break up, with questions like ‘Should I Text My Ex?’, ‘Should I call him?’ or even ‘Should I email her?’ always on you mind, then you’ve come to the right place. You might even have been checking things like Facebook hoping that they haven’t defriended you so you can keep an eye on their relationship status.

More importantly, if you’ve been dumped by someone you’re still in love with, chances are that you know what I’m talking about. The thought of contacting them is probably always on your mind. And that’s natural. You just want to get them back.

Let me tell you about this real-life story of my friend and her lost love, and how I managed to get them back together. It will help show you that you are not alone and that there are better ways to approach getting your ex back if you really belong together.

Claire was (and still is) my best friend, but the last relationship she dived into wasn’t the easiest in the first place, and to me never seemed like a great idea. Tony, the guy she was dating, had just got out of one marriage, leaving lengthy, ongoing divorce proceedings, as well as two kids from that marriage. Despite this, however, my best friend managed to fall for him hook, line and sinker.

We talked about how complicated the situation was, and how she would have to think about his ex partner and his kids. Mainly, I wanted to make sure she’d thought it all through. They had started dating anyway, and for a while they seemed very happy. And that was probably why I wasn’t prepared for what happened a few months later…

Claire phoned me in the middle of the night. She told me that Tony had ended their relationship, and she was back at her mothers house. She was talking through tears, and maybe not thinking clearly, but she asked for my help… It was only when I was driving over to meet her that I started thinking about what I was doing – how on earth was I going to be of any help here?!

It was obvious Claire wasn’t thinking of letting him go. She insisted that Tony and her were so right for each other. Then I started thinking that some couples somehow manage to get back together – even after the some of the worst arguments imaginable – so it must be possible, and maybe I could offer some advice after all.
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The thing that came up most during our conversations that night was that she wanted to send him a text! “I’ll just send him a quick text to tell him I still love him”… Even thinking about it now, it was pretty clear that he wouldn’t be replying anytime soon.

I went home after a lot of talking. We’d been over and over the events that lead to her being dumped, but I still didn’t feel I had offered any advice to help her get her ex back. If the situation was reversed, I’d like to think my best friend would do everything she could to help me. I didn’t even know whether the advice I’d given was of any value, and to avoid letting her down, I found myself at my computer – looking around the net for an answer… or any help whatsoever. And then (after hours of searching through what looked like bad advice) I found this video…!

Moments before stopping for the night, I found this guy who had written a whole book on this subject and talks kindly about the people he has helped. I watched one of his videos and he really knows his stuff. I bought his book for Claire, as it was the best I could find to help her to get her ex back. She needed expert help… more than I could offer even as her best friend.

Over the next few weeks my friend got happier as she put into practice the steps in the book I’d given her. And she kept telling me how she and Tony were taking baby steps to overcome issues that neither thought could be fixed! I was delighted to have been able to help my friend in her time of need… And it was great having my old friend back again.

If you haven’t already watched it, let me show you the short video I am talking about, click the play button to be taken to the video page. This video alone could start you down the right road – the road to recovering your relationship. Play the video now and I wish you the best of luck and huge success as you take action to rekindle your relationship..

Wishing you the best of luck, Katie Rainer

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