In our free report (available to download here), we go into detail about what your first step should be after a break up to maximise your chances of getting your ex back. So now, lets talk about why this first step is so effective, and how it plays on your ex’s mind. I’ll also explain why it’s a key role in the system of getting your ex partner back into your arms for good.
How Not To Do Things…
Right – it’s just after the break-up, emotions are running high and you are feeling quite confused. The normal reaction after someone is dumped by their partner is for that person to send their ex text after text, email after email, phone them again and again and so on, right?… so that’s the expected behaviour, and it is exactly that kind of behaviour that makes people seem predictable and desperate, which is very bad in this situation.
Not only that, but by doing this they are making their ex feel more important because they are being chased. It also makes the person that is doing the chasing look weak because they are constantly chasing! By spending all their time trying to get in touch with their ex they’re doing the equivalent of begging! Trying to get back into their ex’s lives by any means neccessary.
But, as you’ll know by now, you are stronger than that, and you won’t show that kind of behaviour
A Bit Of Mischief
So what do you think your ex is going to be thinking about you if DON’T try to contact them all the time? If you DON’T show the kind of begging behaviour we just talked about?
That’s right – they’re going to wonder why!
They’re going to be racking their brain thinking “Hang on a sec… I thought they’d be thinking about me all the time, I thought they’d be sending me text after text confessing their love for me?!”
The Right Way To Do Things
By NOT texting your ex, phoning them in the night telling them about the mistake they made letting you go, you are showing your self worth! You are showing your ex partner that you are a strong, cabable individual, someone that they should WANT be with… do you see where I’m going with this?
And what do you think your ex partner will be thinking about in this time? They are going to start missing you… perfect for us don’t you think?
This is exactly what you want!
Who knows, maybe your ex will even concede and send YOU the first text telling you that they miss you, sound good? If that happens, the best way to deal with this situation is explained in the system that we talk about in our free report, as well as many other tips on how to get your ex back for good.
If you don’t know the first step in the system, then you’re missing out but don’t worry, you can get the info in our FREE report by clicking here.
Does this all make sense to you? Do you get how this will could your ex INSANELY jealous?
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