Ok in this post I’m going to go into more detail about a point I have already touched upon: Stop asking yourself ‘should I text my ex‘ – by not texting your ex just after a breakup, you are improving your chances of making up with them in the long run, and relighting the spark between you.
Why Does This Work?
So what are the reasons behind this? What makes this system work? First of all – and this may sound like something you don’t need right now – but… it gives both of you some time to think.
That’s right, some time apart to really think about the relationship. I know what it feels like straight after a break up, I know this will seem hard but you really owe it to yourself and your ex partner to really think about your relationship.
This will help you decide if this relationship is really what you want! Everyone knows that break-ups hurt – it’s a feeling of rejection that always hits home harder than others because of the time and commitment you put into relationships. These feelings can always seem amplified, and you take the opinion of that ONE person to be much more than it really is. Just remember that (even though you may not believe it right now) there are always people around you who really care about you.
Some Time To Think…
So when you are thinking of the relationship, what should you be thinking about? Well for starters try to be as impartial as possible – what were the good points? what were the bad points? What would you have liked to have done differently as the relationship went on. I have outlined some other key points you may like to think about in my free report on making up with your ex partner, but these two should be enough to start with.
And remember that even things like the time of day can have an impact on your mood! In the middle of the day when you are surrounded by your friends and on your way to do something fun, texting your ex may be the last thing on your mind – which is where it should be! But later on, at night if you are feeling lonely, you will have to reach in for that strength to not pick up the phone and send a longing, desperate text to your ex partner.
Remember, this is just one aspect of the system for getting your ex partner back, and the first step in doing so. If you can’t wait for more information on how to get your ex partner back – take a look at this complete guide you can use to get your ex partner back for good.