If you feel that everything you are doing to get back together with your ex partner isn’t working, then you are not alone. Almost everyone thinks the same type of thing following a break up. They continually ask themselves things questions such as “Should I text my ex?” “Should I phone her?” or worse “What if I just went round to his house?”
And what makes it more difficult, it’s as if these thoughts almost have the power to take over lives. Sometimes people can’t think of anything else but how to get their ex back. Especially when everywhere they go they are reminded of something that their ex partner used to do, or say. Perhaps they even had the same group of friends which can be even more upsetting, so they try harder to get their ex back. And when the ex doesn’t respond, they find themselves further increasing their attempts to get reunited.
Does any of this sound familiar to you? Are you overcome with emotions and feelings of missing your ex? Are you constantly trying to decide just the ‘correct words’ to use when you send that text message or pick up the phone, before backing out at the last minute?
If This Is Sounding All Too True… Don’t Worry About It
If you are feeling this way, no one could blame you for being in a bad place right now. You may just been in a pretty bad break up and your self confidence may have taken a knock, leaving you feeling pretty low. In this situation it’s only natural that the first thing you want to do is to text your ex to convince them what a huge mistake they made letting you go. After all, it’s human nature, right?
How Do I Get My Ex Back Then?
Well, although you won’t be able to believe it just now, this is just one of those times when you need to stop listening to your heart and use a better method to get your ex partner’s attention… a method that’s been proved to work for the many thousands of couples who got back together after their break-ups.
So although a break up may have left you with a constant internal battle between your head and your heart – your head telling you to be rational and to wait for the pain to pass, versus your heart suggesting you pick up that phone or send them a text, you have to obey some simple rules.
Should I text my ex? – Rule 1:
Don’t contact your ex at all just now.
Should I text my ex? – Rule 2:
Don’t forget rule 1
In this time you should take a few days to figure out what YOU want – what makes you happy? What do you enjoy doing? Just put the relationship thoughts on hold for a while (just keep in mind that if you use the system that is outlined here properly, your ex will be chasing YOU asking you to forgive THEM and definitely eliminate the texting, at least until you learn how to get them to respond using the proper system.
In the next post, we will discuss the tried and tested method that others have used to get their ex back after a break up (and how you can use them too). However if you can’t wait that long, click here for more info now.